T. Belman. I don’t envy the Jewish students on college campuses today. They are exposed to so much in your face antisemitism. In the fifties and sixties, when I went to college, there was no antisemitism. Nefesh B’Nefesh claims a “53 percent rise in the number of single Jews under 30 moving to Israel since 2009. In 2021, Nefesh B’Nefesh said, 1,380 Jews in this category made aliyah. They expects that number to go up still more in 2022.”
Barry Weiss. (formerly of the NYT)
“Hello Ms. Weiss, Please excuse any typos, I’m writing this half asleep on a train…”
Thus began a cold email I received in September 2019 from a young man named Blake Flayton. He was a student at George Washington University, he told me. He had just read my book, How to Fight Antisemitism, and he wanted to tell me more about the atmosphere he was facing as a pro-Israel, gay, progressive on campus.
I remember forwarding the email to my editor and saying: This is exactly who I wrote my book for.
A few months later, Blake’s email resulted in an op-ed for the New York Times entitled On the Front Lines of Progressive Antisemitism, which offered a picture of the choice facing young American Jews like him: disavow Israel or be cast out from the right-side-of-history crowd.
Most choose the former. Blake chose the latter, and with the kind of social consequences you can imagine. I wish I could tell you that the situation on campus has changed in the three years since we first started corresponding. Alas, the opposite is true.
What inspires me about Blake and his circle of young American Jews is that they aren’t waiting for the grown-ups to make things right. They’re building a new future all by themselves. For some, that means doing something they never imagined they would do: leaving America to start new lives in Israel. Blake is moving a few weeks from now. In the essay below, he explains why.
By Blake Flayton
I had always felt at home in America. It was my home and my parents’ home and my grandparents’, and it never seemed like it could be any way else. But three weeks from now, I am leaving the place where I was born and making a new life in Israel. The story of why is the story of a growing cohort of Gen Z Jews who see what the older generations cannot yet see: That the future doesn’t feel like it’s here as much as there.
When people ask me what the origin point is—when I knew I would leave—it’s not one particular moment, but a collection. Among them:
The drunk girl at my alma mater, George Washington, caught on video in November 2019, saying, “We’re going to bomb Israel, you Jewish pieces of shit.”
The Hillel that was spray-painted with “Free Palestine” in July 2020, at the University of Wisconsin.
The Chabad House set on fire in August 2020, at the University of Delaware.
The Jewish vice president of student government at USC who resigned in August 2020, after getting barraged with antisemitic hate.
The University of Chicago students who, in January 2022, called on their fellow students not to take “sh*tty Zionist classes” taught by Israelis or Jews.
The Jewish fraternity at Rutgers that got egged in April 2022—during a Holocaust Remembrance Day commemoration.
The Chabad menorah that was vandalized for the fourth time in two years, in May 2022, at the University of Cincinnati.
The protester who hurled rocks at Jewish students in June 2022, at the University of Illinois.
The swastikas that turned up in July and August 2022, at Brown.
The Hillel that was vandalized in August 2022, at USC.
The innumerable, antisemitic incidents at San Francisco State University, which the Lawfare Project, a Jewish nonprofit, has called “the most anti-Semitic college campus in the country.”
The two girls recently kicked out of a group that combats sexual assault, at SUNY New Paltz, because they had the temerity to post something positive about Israel.
The universities, which bend over backward to create safe spaces for most students, increasingly making room for antisemites in lecture halls and at graduation ceremonies (see, for example, Duke, Indiana University, the University of Denver, Arizona State University and CUNY).
The proliferation of statements and articles and open letters proclaiming support for the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement—a political movement that has as its stated goal the dismantling of the Jewish state—from Harvard to Pomona to Berkeley to the University of Illinois, along with the conviction, widespread on many campuses, that Jewish students should be barred from conversations about BDS, because, well, they’re Jewish.
In college, for the first time, I began to feel the way Jews have often felt in other times and places: like The Other.
At first, I felt deeply alone in this feeling. I wondered if I was paranoid or hysterical.
But I discovered I’m not the only one. There are many other twenty-something Jews who, like me, had never felt this kind of isolation—until suddenly we did.
CUNY students protest to demand that the university system divest from Israel in May 2021 in New York City. (Andrew Lichtenstein/Corbis via Getty Images)
“I don’t know a single Jewish college student who hasn’t experienced antisemitism,” one student from Arizona State told me.
“Jewish students on campus are forced to leave an integral and fundamental part of our identity at the door in order to be accepted by the community,” another wrote to me from the University of Oregon. (Both students refused to speak openly for fear of social backlash.)
“It was at Florida International University in Miami where I witnessed antisemitism firsthand in the form of anti-Zionism,” Meyer Grunberg told me. Grunberg was shocked by the leaflets distributed by the on-campus group Students for Justice in Palestine, which, he said, accused Israel of committing genocide, including the murder of Palestinian children—harkening back to the medieval blood libel.
Rob Greenberg had heard stories from his grandparents about occasional instances of antisemitism they’d experienced—his grandmother’s employer didn’t want to let her leave work in time for Shabbat, and so on. But growing up in Scarsdale, New York, in the early 21st century, he had never encountered any antisemitism himself.
Until he arrived at NYU.
“So many times,” he emailed me, “I would see gatherings outside the library with ‘progressives’ holding up signs and chanting anti-Israel slogans. I will never forget one time going up to one of those students and challenging him on his positions. Within 20 seconds, when he realized I was not on his side, he called over other members of his group, and I found myself surrounded and was told to leave before anything violent breaks out. I realized then that dialogue was not what they were looking for.”
Bridget Gottdank’s mom is Christian, and her dad is Jewish. Growing up in New York, she, too, never faced any overt antisemitism. Until she arrived at college at Coastal Carolina University. She was at a social gathering with a group of classmates near campus when Israel came up. Gottdank said something positive, and then someone she considered a friend became furious and called her a “stupid Jew.”
I met Noah Shufutinsky at G.W., where he majored in Judaic Studies. “Academically, I had a positive experience,” Shufutinsky told me. But campus progressives became increasingly strident in their denunciations of Israel, to the point that he felt they were “encouraging antisemitic activity.”
G.W. was the kind of place where it was considered normal for protests about raising cafeteria workers’ wages to involve the Jewish state. In May 2019, for example, students rallying on the quad for a $15 minimum wage for school janitors incorporated strong condemnations of Israel into their speeches—as if janitors in Washington, D.C., not getting paid adequately was somehow the fault of Jews thousands of miles away. To Jewish students, the tethering of Israel to workers not getting their fair share felt insulting and familiar.
Elijah Farkash grew up in a mostly non-Jewish community on Long Island. He spent nine summers at a Jewish sleep-away camp in Pennsylvania. His family was “very Zionist,” he said, and “proudly Jewish.”
Then, like Shufutinsky, Farkash went to G.W., where he’s now a senior and where Jews, he said, were widely viewed as “a core component of white elitism in this country.”
Farkash said that students were mostly ignorant of Israel, its history, and its politics—why anyone had thought to found a Jewish state in the first place. “What they think are innocent Instagram stories can actually be very dangerous and unsettling,” he told me, referring to, among other things, posts that routinely compare Israel to South Africa or the Third Reich. “Generally, I avoid discussing Israel with progressive students. It brings me too much angst.”
Then there was my own experience at G.W., in March 2020. I had been at a Shabbat dinner on campus, and I was wearing a kippah. As I was coming out, some kids started shouting, “Yahud! Yahud!”—or Jew! Jew! in Arabic—and then, for good measure, added, “You started it!”, which I could only assume meant Covid. I had never experienced anything like that growing up in Scottsdale, Arizona.
When we talk to our parents about all this, they’re baffled. They lack the vocabulary to make sense of what’s going on. They don’t get that the language they devised in the 1960s and 1970s—the language of inclusion and tolerance and everyone being free to be yourself—is now being weaponized against their own children and grandchildren.
What they know is the old-fashioned antisemitism of the right. This can be deadly and horrific: The Tree of Life massacre in Pittsburgh, in which 11 Jews were murdered as they prayed. The attack by another white supremacist six months later, at a synagogue in Poway, California.
But for the time being, that violence is on the margins. And the vast majority of Americans abhor it and support prosecuting it. In 2022, no Jew is worried about being attacked by the Klan on a country road.
No, what Jews in 2022 fear is being visible as Jews on the streets of Brooklyn. What Jews in 2022 fear, especially if they’re in their twenties, is outing themselves as a supporter of Israel and losing all their friends. What we fear is being called apartheid lovers and colonizers and white supremacists—and how those powerful smears might affect our futures.
To be fair, it was hard for many of our Jewish peers to see this, too.
“Antisemitism from the left is hard for young people to see, because young people a lot of time align with the left,” a Jewish woman who recently graduated from the University of Pennsylvania told me. “Left-wing activists only describe Zionists and Israel, so it’s hard for young Jews to see how it threatens Jews in America.”
But we knew this wasn’t just about Israel. Why else were we always getting called Nazis?
In college, we lost a lot. We lost friends. We lost our sense of belonging. And unbelievably, some of us lost that feeling of being permanently American. But we gained something as well: a fascination with the Jewish story.
Soon enough we all came, in our own times, to face some questions: How was this changing us? How was the thinning out of our American identities deepening our Jewish ones?
In the face of all of this, the thought of moving to Israel became an idea that wouldn’t go away—a conversation I kept having.
Marc Rosenberg is the vice president of partnerships at the nonprofit Nefesh B’Nefesh, which helps Jews in the United States, Canada and Britain make aliyah—that is, move to Israel, return to the Promised Land. Rosenberg told me his organization has seen a 53 percent rise in the number of single Jews under 30 moving to Israel since 2009. In 2021, Rosenberg said, 1,380 Jews in this category made aliyah. He expects that number to go up still more in 2022.
Among that number is everyone in this story.
A few years after graduating, Rob Greenberg moved to Tel Aviv. “A job opportunity in tech is what brought me out here and ultimately led to me making aliyah,” he said. Had he not felt threatened and demeaned as an observant Jew walking around Greenwich Village in his kippah, he might not have gone that route.
After graduating in 2019, Meyer Grunberg worked for a couple years in the Miami area, and, in 2022, moved to Jerusalem.
Over the past few years, Shufutinsky, who is biracial, became relatively well known as a rapper who sings in English and Hebrew. (His stage name is Westside Gravy.) Unlike in the United States, he said, in Israel he didn’t feel conflicted about his two interwoven identities: his Jewish and black roots. “I love that when I got to Israel, I wasn’t hounded by people asking ‘how are you Jewish?’ and going on and on about ‘the conflict’ every time being Jewish came up,” Shufutinsky emailed me. “Instead, I was greeted by people who referred to me as ‘akh sheli’ (my brother) and encouraged me to convince my whole family to ‘come home.’”
This summer, Shufutinsky followed in the footsteps of his older brother, Dmitry, and did just that.
Bridget Gottdank finished college at West Chester University of Pennsylvania with a degree in political science—and, in early 2022, moved to Tel Aviv. She’s working at a nonprofit. Elijah Farkash is now a senior at G.W., and is planning to make aliyah when he graduates.
I first tried to get to Israel via a study abroad program when I was still at G.W. That was in 2020, and Covid squashed it. Then I tried to go a second time, only to be foiled again by the pandemic. I tried to go again, unsuccessfully, and then again, also to no avail—weirdly, the Post Office lost my passport. (Was America trying to hold onto me?) When I finally got to Israel—fifth time’s a charm—I didn’t intend to make aliyah. I just wanted to see it.
And then I fell in love. On a beach in Tel Aviv, I held hands with a boy, and I still felt deeply connected to the Jewish people—something I had never experienced in the United States. (If you suspect I’m alone, ask any Jew who’s dared to show up at a Pride march in New York or Los Angeles with a rainbow-colored Star of David on a flag or t-shirt.)
Leaving America isn’t easy—and it shouldn’t be. Right now, I live on the Lower East Side, the onetime home of the writer Isaac Bashevis Singer and of Walter Matthau and of Jackie Mason and so many others. The idea of leaving seems like a betrayal. But I’m resigned to that. It’s a resignation that feels ancient and so much bigger than me.
When I get to Israel three weeks from tomorrow, I’m putting my luggage away. I’ll be done wandering, and I’ll be done asking other people to accept my Jewishness and my Zionism. I’ll be home.
Reader Thank you, good post. I live in an area where there are few Jews. I have not had any problems. I am treated with great curiosity.
@peloni, @Honeybee, @stevenl
There is a new (2021) book Jews Don’t Count by David Baddiel, a British Jewish comedian and a writer.
His main thesis is that Jews are not treated the same as all the other minorities, and that antisemitism is viewed as somehow different from all the other -isms directed against minorities, i.e., what would be considered terribly offensive when directed against other minorities is pretty much ignored when directed against the Jews.
It is a short book but I think it proves that “it [the children of Israel] is a people that shall dwell alone, and shall not be reckoned among the nations” Numbers 23:9
https://mechon-mamre.org/p/pt/pt0423.htm
Unfortunately, the author doesn’t realize this because he is, by his own admission, “an atheist” and “not a Zionist”, he simply makes some very interesting observations with special attention to the relationship between the “progressives” and Jews.
I think he gives too much credit for being unintentionally antisemitic to the highly placed antisemites among the British.
Reader peloni1986 I did not mean to imply that individual behavior is a cause for antisemitism. Antisemites can use individual behavior to indite all Jews, Especially among people who have no personal relationships with a Jew.
@Reader
Well said!
Honeybee
No, I would suggest that this is untrue. A man is responsible for himself, his own actions, and no other. SBF is accused of having committed a great crime, but only an antisemite would suggest that you or his neighbor or his dog is responsible for what Sam himself did do. Consequently, there is no target on your back because of SBF. If it is there, it is there because our enemies chose to tool his crime as our own. It is not. Any criminality conducted by SBF is his alone to bear a target.
Still, there are those who will suggest that his crime is a mark against our people. Do not support this illogically false suggestion as truthful. This is not just illogical and false, it is purely evil to suggest. You noted a few days ago that you would never bring disgrace upon our community by having an unruly hair day. There are those who only have unruly hair days, and it is a mark of criticism that this is so, but the simple truth is that our community is not implicated in the manner or style of anyone’s hair, nor of anyone’s crimes. Their crimes are not our crimes, anymore than their hair is our hair. I would suggest that when you accept that the contrary is true, you are yourself playing into the hands of our enemies. Recall that the goal of our enemies is not to just diminish us in their eyes, but to diminish us in our eyes as well. Do not offer them this false victory. They have not earned such a victory and we have not earned such a defeat.
Instead, find what it is you most celebrate in our people and our community and celebrate that. We are a strong and surviving people, capable of this task. They see us as being different, so let us celebrate our differences. Among the differences between us and them would be that they would hold us responsible for the actions of SBF, whereas we would not hold their loved ones or kin responsible for their lack of liberal values where a man is guilty only of his own crimes. Indeed, we would be the first to protest such a violation of judicial, ethical and moral norms, and we would be right to do so.
But do not look to our enemies for our own salvation, rather see our enemies as being our enemies. They are not our friends, not our colleagues and not our associates. They are our enemies. Look to your friends, your loved ones and your community for a collective support, as some will need protection and care more than others. And face down our enemies, as they say Sam’s crimes are your crimes, tell them the truth: Sam’s crimes are only Sam’s crimes.
@Honeybee
You seem to imply here that everyone has the right to hold all the Jews responsible for the (alleged) crimes of one Jew.
No one is perfect, and “bad” (in your and stevenl’s opinion) Jews are not the cause of antisemitism, antisemites are.
Personally, I find it unreal that we now have a state where, probably, more than 50% of all the Jews of the world reside, and most Jews of the Diaspora still want to keep “fighting antisemitism and reviving the Jewish life in the Diaspora” which is an exercise in futility, to say the least, and to keep looking for the guilty party among other Jews.
peloni1986 Bankman-Fried has no claim antisemitism is the cause of his downfall. Has he placed a target on all of our backs?
peloni1986 True, but their actions don’t help none.
Sowell attributes Black antisemitism to jealousy.. That belief is too simplistic.
In my view, we attract antisemitism because we are the other. Ever since Rome adopted Christianity in 325 AD, The Church vilified the Jews and Christians for centuries hated or feared the Jews culminating in the holocaust.. There was a respite during the Enlightenment.. Hitler came along and stoked the fire of hatred using the big lie as a major tool. It was easy to do because any civility that existed was skin deep only, thanks to the Church.
The Church planted the seeds of the Holocaust
Mohammed first tried to win the Jews to his site in the 7th Century and modeled his religion on the Hebrew bible.. When the Jews rejected him, he turned on the Jews and rejected them.. Then followed 1500 years of Islamic Jew-hatred to the present day…Remember this was a time in which the Muslims conquered and converted a huge part of the East. Even so the Jews were better off living among the Muslims then they were living among the Christians.. Under the Muslims, the Jews were considered people of the book and were relegated to dhimmi status but not killed or forced to convert in the main..
This changed in the 20 th Century after the Balfour Declaration.. The Jews reasserted themselves as Jews and not as Dhimmis and this outraged the Muslims.. They wanted us to remain as Dhimmis. That conflict did not give rise to antisemitism until the PA stoked the fires of antisemitism with the big lie just as Hitler did.. Thus the PA induced propaganda war against the Jews/Israel has led to an exponential rise in antisemitism and Jew-hatred..
So the cause of much antisemitism over the millennium was .various actors who fanned the flames in order to achieve victory over the Jews.
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@stevenl
@Honeybee
With all due respect to you both, I have a significantly different perspective here.
Antisemitism is not the result of evil action by individuals who happen to be Jewish. Antisemitism is the result of our enemies who are seeking to label Jews as the source of all evil which a few notable Jews may be associated, directly or indirectly or not at all. The culpability of the notable Jews in question, eg Zuckerburger, is irrelevant, as it is only his heritage which is the relevant point. As there are many Jews in the current administration, there are many Catholics, and many protestants, many whites and many blacks as well, but where is the racial reference to Kirby’s heritage, or that of Jean-Pierre, or Harris, or either of the Twitter chiefs Parag Agrawal or Dorsey.
Antisemitism is not relatable to the actions of any Jew. They hate us because of our heritage and use excuses such as Zuckerbucks to excuse their villainy and lack of respect for civilized norms. Their worship of antisemitism is a violation of all that modern society has come to represent, where each man and woman are to be judged for their own actions, and not demeaned or judged as a collective group, irrelevant to what any member of that group might have been potentially culpable of doing.
I too hate the people on @stevenl’s list, but my hate for them is not relatable to their heritage, which is why I find that list to be far too limited. Where is Bill Gates’ name? What of Fauci? Rick Bright? Janet Woodcock? These latter two are fully responsible for the entire Covid scam not being held in check by Trump’s HCQ policy, and are therefore responsible for the deaths of everyone who died of a lack of treatment worldwide. What is their heritage? Really, I couldn’t care less what the answer might be, as they alone are responsible for their own actions. They aren’t poster children to be used to abuse their relative communities, which might be my own or some other. They are their own keepers and I yearn for the day when I see each of them and their colleagues held to retribution for all that they have done. But only those who actually did something for which they should be judged. This is what civilization represents, and antisemitism is a flagrant violation of such valued norms.
It is a failure of leadership which has allowed this villainy to make so prominent and robust a return amongst our modern age. The Left have used antisemitism for their own purposes for some time now, and with the Kanye campaign against us, it is becoming a beckoning call on the Right as well. We must be up to the task of facing down these villains, regardless of their political proclivities, as we are their prey, no matter our own political beliefs.
Consequently, we are not pre-judged for the actions of some progressive Jews. We are pre-judged for our heritage and told that it is due to these evil Jewish headliners for which we are abused. Do not believe their lies. We are hated because we are Jews. It is simple. Our best defense is to learn our own history well, celebrate who we are, support our own people as best we can, and dispute the lies which support our own diminution – it has no validity. We are the people who shared law and morality with the world. From Deborah to Maimonides. From Moses to Einstein. We have significantly made the world a better place and continue to do so even in our modern age. Consequently, we need not bow our head in retribution for those power villains who notably are our relations – that is for them alone to do.
Never forget, we are not hated for the actions of Leftist Jews, nor for those on the Right. We are simply hated. It’s called antisemitism, and its as old as our people.
Just my own thoughts of course.
Steven, you have said what I have been thinking. I am tired of being prejudged by the actions of Progressive Liberal Jews.
Liberal Jew are very much involved in the turmoil in the country!
Yellen!
Zuckerberg!
Soros!
SBFried!
Schumer, Nadler, Schiff!
Hollywood!
Fink/Blackrock (minus 2 $2 trillions)!
Goldman Sachs!
Academia full of antisemitic Jews!
Vaxes pharma headed by several Jews!
US adm full of liberal Jews who do not see eye to eye with Jews of Israel
Then they complain about antisemitism!
Chutzpah!!!
I was a student in the late sixties, in England, and there was no antisemitism at all in my university – or any other, as far as I know. There were also no members of the so-called religion of peace. When the Six Day War began, coachloads of both Jewish and non-Jewish students were leaving to fly to Israel and help out on a kibbutz. I don’t know when the balance tipped, as I was out of the UK from 1976 to 1992, but today the antisemitism on campuses across the UK is truly appalling. And today there are more than three million Muslims living in the UK and less than 300,000 Jews. Young Jewish families and older people alike have left to make aliyah. And the UK is poorer, both culturally and economically, as a result of this modern exodus.